Molestation or sexual harassment is an unfair way of someone who is using you to take sexual pleasure. It can be in a number of forms. At the age of 12 you should be aware of what sexual harassment is. The most common type of sexual harrassment would be someone touching your buttocks, or touching your back passinately, or someone who is older than you involves you in sexual discussion. You should be aware of various acts used for sexual purposes. It is the duty of your father/mother to tell you about sexual harrassment, however, if they have not informed you about it, it is your duty to know about it. The information i have listed below is targetted for boys only but it can applicable to girls also.
Someone touching your private parts
Pelvic area [including penis, scrotum etc] and buttocks are your private parts. No one is allowed to see it or touch it withour your permission. Only doctors can see it if they are having your for medical check ups. If someone touches them either in frindly or non-frindly way, this is a way of sexual harassment. It may be becuase that person is trying to take sexual adavantage of you. This should be clear in your mind. The offender can be a friend, a stranger or relatives. It does not depend who is doing it what depends is what he is doing to you!
Hugging
Hugging is a way of showing love to each other but hugging between men can be a form of sexual harrassment. If your friend hold you for too long while hugging you, or he is pressing you in his arm for a long time something that you are not comfortable with, he is taking advantage of you. This form will most happend between your friend or between someone who you know little. In such a case avoid contact with such person, if needed take severe action.
Nudity
Nudity in public is a also a from of sexual molestation. If someone deliberetely shows you his private parts or he pretends it was by mistake, it is a from of molestation. He is in a way pursuading you in sexual acts and want to develope a sexual contact with you. In many cases the offender will be older than you and will bear somekind of interest in you. Avoid any contact with such person and inform you elder about such incidents. Never develop a physical contact with such a person not even shaking hands if possible.
Dirty Language
Some can start talking to you about sex directly or indirectly. He might start the topic in a friendly and polite way. You should be aware of who he is and why is he talking about that. It may happend in friends. If so be sure what type of character and company your friend has and why is he talking to you like that. Is he meaning some type of sexual adventure with you? If it is an older man, it more serious. You need not to respond to him. Avoid sitting with such a person. He might directly go physical and you wont be able to help yourself. Do let your parents know about it.
Starring
The most common type of molestation that is seen in public. Almost all types of molestation starts from starring. Starring is something you are looking at someone constantly and presumefly for sexual point of view. Although this can be a problem which is seen by most girl and women, it can be a problem with boys too. Some one can stare your body. It is wrong and you are supposed to complain about it!
Avoid talking to strangers
Do not talk to older strangers for nothing. An older stranger might become friendly with you while you are taking a train or bus. He might start conversation with you in a polite manner. Although this is not that bad but you should take cuation while talking to such person. Most teenager would not talk in depth to other old men if they have meet for the firt time.
Avoid Wrong Company
To help yourself not be suxually molested, the best way is to always choose the right company. Never ever indulge yourself in a company which is not meant for you. For example
- Avoid sitting in company of older people who you think are your friends!
- Never break your sexuality with older men than you.
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